The Wind Rider

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This past week, I flew in an airplane for work related reasons. It felt so good to do this. The test? To be able to last three to four hours in a plane and return in good shape.

Success!

I’m staying disciplined following through in my treatment for eating right (80% organic vegetarian, no dairy and no sugar/ 20% other with organic grass fed meats, fish etc.), exercising (long walks; an occasional limited round of 9 hole golf) and getting IV-C intravenous infusions which continue to bump up my immune system to fight the “cancer boys.”

Judy and I are glad we live in Tempe, AZ. We have Whole Foods, Sprouts, Trader Joes, Natural Foods plus Fry’s. And I should say the epitome of fine organic foods is found at Costco’s. Half joking about that. Judy and I are blessed in understanding how food is becoming our new medicine.

Both Drs Grado and Rubin have released me until March 22 to LIVE! I’m smiling when I say that but I feel good and am as active as I can be. Then, in March, they will rescan my body to see how the healing has progressed. Thank you for praying.

In the interim, it’s been about being and/or feeling normal, and growing spiritually in my relationship with Jesus.

I’m also busy co-writing with Tom Roy using fiction in a trilogy regarding a character named Bob Chadwick, who is on his own manhood journey. We’ve started with Sandusky Bay, will soon release the second book entitled Ellison Bay and finally, the third book is in tow called….Lake of Bays On RootHog Island.

Humbly, a long while back,  I decided to try and pen a poem or song. Then, on this recent flight to another part of the USA, the time had come to finish the piece. Why? Because I’m at a different place and I wanted too. I love saying “I wanted too.” I’m smiling again.

Thank you for reading this expression of soul on my journey of expectations, exhilarations, and some apprehensions. It’s entitled:

THE WIND RIDER

Riding on the wind
Looking out my window
This journey through life
A width of my hand
Wondering about the rider on wind I am

Flying over creation and man made cities
Looking to meet The Life Giver
Singing in the shadow of his wings
At rest in Him

Fly well, people count
Waiting for a new day
And life is no more
The length of my way
I'm traveling to The Wind Rider
Where all will be okay

Part of my journeys
Leaving behind those I love
Will they ride the wind acting a fool
Or be like The Wind Rider
Whose loving is kind and true

Fly well, people count
Waiting for a new day
And life is no more
The length of my way
I'm traveling to The Wind Rider 
Where all will be okay

Being together in eternity
Riding the wind with HIM
Redeemed, restored, Beloved
To sin no more

Fly well, people count
Waiting for a new day
And life is no more
The length of my hand
To see The Wind Rider
 

2BRealMen Shout out!

Tom Roy and I are giving a shout out to launch our new 2BRealMen web page. See what we’re up to and enjoy. The dream is to reach men for Christ and mature them in the faith on what it takes to be real men.

Select the shout out:  The Shoutout!

Jerry

Thoughts on the Millennial Paradox – A Table Talk with a Father and Daughter

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Recently, a video clip of Tom Bilyeu interviewing motivational speaker, Simon Sinek on his show Inside Quest was circulating around Facebook Land. My daughter and I noticed it because it was titled “Simon Sinek Explains the Millennial Paradox.”

It peaked my and Jana’s interest because her daughter/my granddaughter is a Millennial.

We didn’t know who Tom Bilyeu or Simon Sinek were but we love millennials, so we clicked the play button and for 15 minutes were educated about the Millennial plight. 

As we watched we were particularly drawn to Simon’s genuine nature. He seemed passionate about what he was talking about and believable. Simon began by defining how millennials have been described by leadership in corporations as entitled, narcissistic, unfocused, and lazy. 

Then Simon went on to explain that millennials are the way they are because of poor parenting strategies, citing parents that gave their children what they wanted when they wanted it, creating an instant gratification generation and other parents that didn’t allow their child to fail, thus devaluing their achievements. Add to that poor coping mechanisms to deal with stress that Sinek attributed to addiction (to social media and cell phone) and finally he concludes that millennials have lower self-esteem than previous generation, through no fault of their own, that they were “dealt a bad hand.”

In his final admonishment he speaks to corporations, stating that “It’s a total lack of good leadership in our world today that is making them feel the way they do. They were dealt a bad hand. I hate to say it but it’s the companies responsibility, sucks to be you, like we have no choice, right? This is what we got, and I wish their parents and society would have done a better job. They didn’t, so we’re getting them in our companies and we now have to pick up the slack. We have to work extra hard to figure out the ways to build their confidence. We have to work extra hard to find ways to teach them the social skills they are missing out on.” 

Then his pinnacle conclusion that the reason millennials are the way they are is because they were “dealt a bad hand” and that their best case scenario, “as an entire generation, was growing up and going through life and never really finding joy. They’ll just waft through life but never find joy” just broke our hearts. 

So Jana and I set out to have a dialogue or table talk if you will about what we were hearing. I know this blog is longer but I want to introduce Jana to you and how a father/daughter combination can seriously discuss this issue of the Millennial Paradox. It’s a discussion that we ended up moving over to email and our separate blogs in order to capture our thoughts in writing so as to participate in the greater conversation.

Let me invite you to hear the conversation. Feel free to weigh in if you like.

Jerry: My first thought as I watched this guy, Simon, give his ‘expert’ opinion, his ‘diagnosis’ on the problem was that he offered no hope. Where is the hope?

Jana: You’re right dad. Although I felt hopeful when I initially started watching his talk, I realized that what I actually felt was his excitement as he set a tone of confidence regarding his knowledge of the topic. In the end, there was no hope in his message. It was dire diagnosis and all Simon could prescribe ultimately, was for corporations to bear the load and try to repair this generation the best they can.

Jerry: It’s interesting how perspective can expose issues. Much of what Simon said was funny and seemed to resonate an image of a millennial. Simon was very persuasive about identifying millennials but as I was listening my question was “Who is defining this?”

Coming from an understanding of Marketing and Counseling (Twisted Thinking) combined, I know that anyone who is the definer of a problem gets to control the process. 

Jana: Yes, he seemed knowledgeable and I agree with much of what Simon said about screen addiction. I agree that millennials, as a whole, were even dealt a bad hand. However, if I’m playing poker and I’m dealt a bad hand, am I not still responsible for how I play it? 

Jerry: True, when he started to emphasize that a millennial is a millennial because they were dealt a bad hand, through no fault of their own, my ears perked up. Whether he meant to or not, he just promoted what I call Martyred Thinking. 

Out of Martyred Thinking develops a prearranged tactic that avoids responsibility so the person claiming they’ve been dealt a bad hand (whether its true or not) can go do what they want to do. It becomes a platform of pursuing anything that is forbidden.

How do I know this? I’ve been working with Criminal and Twisted Thinkers for years in clinical settings where individuals have perpetrated unconscionable acts on others as a result of taking this closed stance on being a victim. 

There is no hope for integrity, dignity, and living responsibly with people who insist they have been dealt a bad hand and use that belief to support why they become addicts of one sort or another. The blame game isn’t a new thing. It’s been repeated politically, religiously and socially throughout history.

The drug of choice or addiction of choice, at that point, is what I call the excitement of what is forbidden. This phenomenon leads to inflated views of self and not low self-esteem as Simon suggested in the video. It leads to a stubbornness, recklessness, impatience at not being instantly gratified and the result is that others will experience the brunt of it.

Jana: I was hoping Simon would give us something deeper, some of his optimism he’s famous for. I was hoping he would talk about the heart issue and empower the millennial to “play their hand well” but he seemed to make any hope for the Millennial everyone elses problem, thus paralyzing them. 

Jerry It’s definitely a heart or character issue. 

Much of what Simon taught was old hat. Baby Boomers (Eighty Million of us) weren’t using I Phones, I Pads, or technology to produce the chemical reactions we wanted to feel “okay” or superior physically/emotionally/spiritually.

In my day it was all out drugs and sex. Just think Woodstock and you’ll remember. People then weren’t good at relationships either. They tuned out, zoned out and dropped out in droves. 

Experts or the definers of the process want to say it’s not the kids fault, that it’s a matter of parenting but the truth is that experts are scared of not being in control and the go to is that the “you were dealt a bad hand”, so billions of dollars can be spent on reorganizing the chaos or lethargy at hand.

There is no hope for those who would rather blame their environment or station in life by using Martyred Thinking to go and do whatever feels good and is forbidden. The arrogance that exudes from Martyred Thinking isn’t about low self-esteem but about being or thinking a person is entitled and if anyone gets in the way of their entitlement, a prearranged tactic to avoid accountability and responsibility is launched. 

As I watched the video I saw many faces that did not look hopeful but rather had a look in their eyes that said “how can I use what Simon is saying for my benefit.” 

Twisted thinking is very exciting and useful for people who default to “I’ve been dealt a bad hand” and that’s why a person who is practicing twisted thinking would have a core belief that says, “I’m self loathing or am having an identity crises thus I flounder and NEED technology to satisfy my thirst for well-being and want. Then I can BE and not have to worry about relationships which don’t work well. Give me my Xbox or Snap Chat and that’s living!”

Jana: This is familiar and as I look back on my teens and 20’s I know that I was a well-practiced Martyred thinker, blaming you and mom for not protecting me from abuse and from the pain of betrayal. 

It worked for me for a while. I felt a sense of freedom and lived a reckless and exciting life.  I did the drugs, redefined my sexuality and tried to distance myself from your religion. Think Footloose, The Breakfast Club and Trainspotting. I believed that I was dealt a bad hand and I spent a lot years playing that hand by operating in victim-stance, manipulating and lying to get my way. However, when I fell pregnant with my daughter my perspective was rocked to the core and for the first time I was able to see myself clearly in the mirror. What I saw was hopelessness, isolation and a great chasm between myself and others. It was then that I remember really having to work through a false belief that you and mom did not do all you could to give me a leg up. I knew it wasn’t the truth but it was very hard to let go of that belief for it had become so much apart of my identity. I was afraid of losing “myself” or more likely losing my sense of control. 

I believe that my plight was an indicator, a symptom, of the deep depravity of the human condition that we are ALL subject to. When I finally really looked at my hand and realized that the only good play was to fold, I found hope. 

I asked for a new hand and I found new life, real freedom and a deep reconnection with self, with you and mom, with my Creator and with others.

Jana: So is there any merit to what Simon is saying?  

Jerry: Simon really did have some sound things to say but in defining the problem like he did, he put himself in control of the process. What process?

The process that leaves the listener left empty unless they can agree that “Yeah, he’s right. Parenting is why I’m the way I am. Yeah, somebody is going to have to pay for this. I have a right to continue to live as a person who has learned helplessness and get away with it.” 

I’m not saying there aren’t environments that foster or influence this Martyred Thinking mindset for decision-making. But what I am saying, is like in a test tube, unless it’s proven right every time in the laboratory, it’s not really true science. Conscious or unconsciously, Simon just threw so many millennials out there into his beaker of Martyred Thinking who aren’t martyred thinkers. They don’t buy into what Simon has said because they’re out there creating, building, engaging and valuing relationships. 

Jana: Yes, I know many of them. They’re innovative, passionate and responsible but what about the others, where is the hope for the those listening to Simon’s talk and identify with his findings, those who believe they were dealt a bad hand and are functioning in the belief that it isn’t their fault. Where is the hope for them?  

Jerry: For me, hope for change would have been to have this expert call out their* responsibility for their laziness and to own how it hurts others. 

Hope for change would have been for this expert to call out how their sense of entitlement hurts others deeply because others are treated as property that have no choice but to endure their selfishness. 

(by the way, *their represents us all, whether we’re talking about Millennials, Gen Xers, Baby Boomers or whoever) 

People who activate any Martyred Thinking have no empathy and where there is no empathy an individual is capable of doing unconscionable harm. That doesn’t look like HOPE to me.

Hope encourages self-respect and the respect of others.

The thought that Simon gave about the need to value and develop relationship was right on, but this need transcends to us all. Pointing the finger at parenting or other places of society as those who are the problem, those who dealt the bad hand, actually breaks down the relational concept he is promoting. 

As you have shown in your own story Jana, something happens that’s good on the inside of a person who has come to terms with their responsibility and accountability for who they decide to be. 

Yes, it’s true we can be and are shaped by our personal history but we are not defined by it. There’s HOPE in that. 

HOPE that pursues life! 

Unwittingly, that was missed in the talk this expert gave. 

My Closet Time

Every year for the last ten years, I’ve been privileged to have attended the UPI retreat in Prescott, AZ. UPI stands for Unlimited Potential and it’s a ministry to professional baseball players. I just returned from the 2017 retreat and was overwhelmed by God’s grace in the lives of the men you see in the photo and from many others who attended.

From left to right in the photo, you’ll see the staff: Brian Hommel, Tony Graffanino, Terry Evans, Tom Roy (Founder), Simon Guehring, and Mickey Weston (Director).

My heart is full from the love expressed in the two days we hung out in cabins, at the mess hall, hikes and particularly in what I call The Closet Room (where the meetings were full of teaching, exchanging thoughts, fellowship and big time worship).

I was asked to talk about moving through the WALL into intimacy.

We’ve all had WALLS to overcome, where God definitely has our attention. If not, just wait. It’ll come.

The WALL is actually a place where God expresses his love and motivates us to move into a deeper relationship with Him. And when at a retreat like this, that love was expressed through the men who were open to being vulnerable as real and authentic men.

I came away different from how I went into this time.

How?

We talked about going into the closet to be with Jesus. That favorite place where we can be real with God whether we’re worshipping, reading the WORD or just having a little talk with Jesus, as it’s been said. Sometimes those talks are raw and sometimes they are about experiencing a comfort that transcends the struggles we face.

Brian Hommel was leading the talk on that subject Sunday morning. Then it dawned on me to ask the question.

“Brian, what if you can’t get to THAT closet?” (Favorite room or chair where we’re alone with Jesus)

He was thinking and reflecting as the 70 men in the meeting were waiting for his answer.

But, it was like I couldn’t hold it in and I blurted out, “Cause as far as I’m concerned Brian, this place, this meeting, being with you all in this room has been my closet with God!”

That’s how much I felt about being on Holy Ground and it was – to me.

Toward the end of the time, Brian asked me to come up and close the weekend in prayer.

As I was walking up to the front, he gave me what could have been taken as an incredibly risky remark.

Brian said, “Would you come up to pray for us, since you might be seeing Jesus before I do?”

I roared with laughter. Many others did too. Some sheepishly did. It was so funny and SO real.

As I got to Brian, suddenly, he threw his arms around me and hugged. There we were, standing in front of seventy men, hugging. With tears mixed with JOY, I whispered to him, “You’re a good friend Brian. I love you.”

Why am I sharing this with you?

First, I want you in on how God blessed my soul. And that he is ready to do that for you too, if you need it while facing your WALL.  Once you break through it, He’s there ready to show some humor, but tell you he is your friend and loves you.

Can’t beat that my friends!

What a Closet Room to be in with Jesus! To be with men who love him with everything they have who share the joy, the passion and the authenticity of being warriors for Christ.

As a man who deals with the diagnosis of 4th stage Prostate Cancer, there is no question that this past weekend is a part of what God is doing in my healing process. I’m persistent about that.

Like I’ve said before about the healing.

“If I don’t hear a NO from God, then it’s a GO! Intimacy with him in the closet room of this UPI retreat changed me.

Thank you men. Tom, Mickey, Brian, Terry, Tony, and Simon.

And thank all of you who are faithfully in that room with Judy and me because of your commitment to pray for us.

Love you.

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Choose Life!

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This morning I read from Dr. Ed Dobson’s book Prayers & Promises when facing a life-threatening illness. Here’s a passage from the scriptures that popped out at me:

This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live, and that you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him. For the LORD is your life, and he will give you many years in the land he swore to give to your fathers, Abraham, Issac and Jacob.” Deut. 30:19-20

Since I’ve been diagnosed with Stage Four Prostate Cancer from last August, I’ve always had this attitude that I want to live. I figured that if God hasn’t revealed to me that living is a “NO”, then it’s a “GO.”

But the passage above brings it home even more for me. Life is about choosing to make choices about living and not dying. It’s about leaving a legacy for my children. It’s about loving the LORD my God. It’s about listening to his voice and yes, holding fast to him.

It’s not about we live life only once, so live it with all the gusto I can. Remember the beer commercial that promoted that? A self serving, indulgent life that’s only about me.

While getting an IV-C infusion for treatment last week, a man in the chair near me mentioned he was from the province of Saskatchewan, Canada. That brought back memories of Moose Jaw and Caring Port, Canada where back in the day I taught seminary students about Transforming Twisted Thinking.

This fellow had been through it all. He’s had Radiation, Chemo, Surgery and is now with the same naturopath I have, Dr. Rubin in Scottsdale, AZ. He flies down from Canada every week to get his IV infusions to strengthen his immune system.

The man made it known that it cost him $19,000 a month to live just to have the treatment he needs. He talked about being blessed with wealth and owing a golf course. Now owning a golf course got my attention. I’m smiling at that one.

He told me he was supposed to be dead a year ago. He even pulled up his shirt and showed me a huge scar from the surgery to remove cancer from his esophagus.

I asked him what his plan was for the future.

He said empathically, “I want to help people!”

After that comment he had to leave and we didn’t get to talk more. But just before my new fraternity brother left, he came back and got my name and said he hoped we meet up again.

Clearly this man was choosing to live. I liked his fight and resolve, an addition to the verse I shared showing how choosing life is about leaving a legacy to our children, about loving, relying, listening and holding fast to the LORD.

Why is that important to me?

Because the LORD is my life.

I don’t know where this man was concerning this question, but one thing was for sure. God used him to encouraged me to make choices to live.

Like Dr. Ed Dobson said in his book, “If his disease (ALS) gets him, it will get one of the healthiest people it has ever gotten.”

I am with you Ed!

Let me encourage everyone reading this blog today.

Choose life!

Happy New Year everyone.

Spiritual Leadership and Deceit

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  Deceit and Duplicity

It’s been a long while since I’ve posted. Many of you know I’ve been fighting stage 4 Prostate Cancer over the last 5-6 months. I’m writing today because God is good and so far the treatment is working. I have the energy! Therefore, I’m going to address something that’s been on my mind.

I have a burden for spiritual leaders, particularly since I am one. And I personally know of many places of ministry over my seventy-year lifetime (fifty of it in ministry and counseling) where deceitful leaders have left people deeply wounded. And something needs to be said about it.

Let me cut to the chase, would you?

I’m seeing that spiritual leadership can be a part of the greatest problem we have in the Church worldwide. How? Before John Stott went home to be with the Lord, he identified this problem as Growth Without Depth.

From a pathological point of view, there are leaders who keep God’s people as dependents in what they learn and believe. And if someone wants to mature in the faith and begins to question them, these types of leaders will betray you by trading you in for something or someone they think is better and can meet their agendas.

In our book Beyond Betrayal, I talk with Tom Roy, a good friend and spiritual leader about the pain of betrayal. In one part of the book, we talked about Jesus being betrayed by Judas and how he knows the suffering first hand that came out of that.

The twelve walked with him for three years! As you know, these men were in training to spiritually lead others, but one man had a deceitful heart. Yes, every disciple had problems. They were human. But the deceit coming out of Judas disqualified him from the twelve and from serving the Lord.

My bias is the deceitfulness of Judas went on during the three years he was with the group, but Jesus waited until the one moment before the cross to undo him for it.

Because deceitful spiritual leaders fail to be open and honest with those they serve, I agree with John Stott’s viewpoint of the problem with the Church worldwide. Frankly this issue identifies that leadership style as a respecter of persons who will use people for their own benefit alone. We’ve been seeing it for quite a while, years in fact.

Remember John Stott’s comment of “Growth without Depth” would you?

Is that not fertile ground for a spiritual leader with deceit in their heart to control others and every situation? To say one thing to your face and hide their heart about what they really think or believe, so they can HAVE?

The Bible’s Principle of Human Depravity 

Jeremiah 17:9,10 ESV  The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick;  who can understand it?  “I the Lord search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his deeds.” 

Spiritual leadership that uses deceit to manage/control others and imply they represent God by doing so, reinforce a toxic belief that results in growth with no depth.

THE TOXIC BELIEF: All spiritual leaders are men and women of God and can be trusted.

Example: But in Jeremiah 23, God holds accountable the spiritual leadership of Israel for their lies/deceit. Listen to the warning from the Lord of hosts.

Jeremiah 23:16,17 ESV Thus says the Lord of hosts: “Do not listen to the words of the prophets who prophesy to you, filling you with vain hopes. They speak visions of their own minds, not from the mouth of the Lord. 17 They say continually to those who despise the word of the Lord, ‘It shall be well with you’; and to everyone who stubbornly follows his own heart, they say, ‘No disaster shall come upon you.’”

Jeremiah 23:32, 33 ESV Behold, I am against those who prophesy lying dreams, declares the Lord, and who tell them and lead my people astray by their lies and their recklessness, when I did not send them or charge them. So they do not profit this people at all, declares the Lord. 33 “When one of this people, or a prophet or a priest asks you, ‘What is the burden of the Lord?’ you shall say to them, ‘You are the burden, and I will cast you off, declares the Lord.’

In the book of Psalms, listen to the Lord’s thinking and attitude toward those who use deceit.

Psalm 5:6 ESV You destroy those who speak lies; the Lord abhors the bloodthirsty and deceitful man.

Psalm 50:16-22 ESV 16 But to the wicked God says: “What right have you to recite my statutes or take my covenant on your lips? 17 For you hate discipline, and you cast my words behind you. 18 If you see a thief, you are pleased with him, and you keep company with adulterers. 19 “You give your mouth free rein for evil, and your tongue frames deceit20 You sit and speak against your brother; you slander your own mother’s son. 21 These things you have done, and I have been silent; you thought that I was one like yourself. But now I rebuke you and lay the charge before you. 22 “Mark this, then, you who forget God, lest I tear you apart, and there be none to deliver!

This “what you see isn’t what you get” charade is a tool of the twisted mind.

As we see in the above references (particularly in the case of spiritual leadership), these are people who have a compelling need to be in control of others and that person will use manipulation and deceit to be in and take control of situations.

May I say to the spiritual leadership worldwide, that there will be no growth with depth in our lives and in those we serve, unless deceit is removed from our hearts first.

Let me challenge leaders of Truth to pursue open and honest hearts that trust HIM. Growth with depth in the Church worldwide will have a leadership that understands our depravity and the repentance accountability process. Without this, the pain of betrayal among the brethren will continue to accelerate and the perpetrators of deceit will continue to be spiritual leaders wrecking havoc in the ranks of God’s people.

Strong words I know but the days are short, and I believe Jesus is coming soon.

But look at how much the Lord values a heart without deceitfulness when truth-tellers care for and love his people.

Psalm 32:2 ESV Blessed is the man against whom the Lord counts no iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit.

Psalm 50:23 ESV The one who offers thanksgiving as his sacrifice glorifies me; to one who orders his way rightly I will show the salvation of God!”

 

Ah, Golf and Wind!

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I’ve been watching the 2016 Masters in Augusta.

Here’s the story from ESPN.

Billy Horschel never marked his ball. His second shot — under the rules of the game — was deemed to have gone in the water. So, rather than have an eagle putt or settle for an easy two-putt birdie, he had to take a penalty stroke and finished with a bogey.

“I was hoping the ball would stop so I could put my coin back on it [to mark it], because I knew what was going to happen,’’ Horschel said. “I knew that once the ball rolls, once it’s in play, if it starts rolling, you have to play it from where it finishes and obviously I didn’t have my scuba gear to play it from the water.“ It’s an unfortunate situation where a big old gust came through, my ball was a foot or two from a false front, and it started rolling and the wind kept pushing it to the false front and it went in the water.’’

Am I the only one who is enjoying what these pros are experiencing? It just doesn’t seem fair what the wind at Augusta is doing. But I’ll bet any duffer has been there, if you’ve golfed through the years.

Okay, here’s my point, up front.

No one tells the wind what to do. No one. Not even a pro golfer at Augusta. We’re all reminded of our humanity in golf – for sure. We can’t change the rules in tournament play. But when I’m golfing with my buddies, we give mulligans, tell a guy to pick up his putt, call for winter rules because we’re playing social golf. All kinds of stuff. Is it a purest approach to the game? Of course not.

But whether we play social or pro golf, no one and I mean no one tells the wind what to do.

This reminds me that no one tells God what to do. We can’t cry out “RULES! Let’s change the rules because God isn’t fair.”

Here it comes. Now I’m stretching this. Golf is the game of heaven. Told you it was a stretch. But It does remind us that we’re all human and respecting God is the beginning of wisdom.

I liked what Horschel said as he kept his composure and did not rip into the rules official. “It wasn’t the officials’ fault,’’ he said. “They can’t do anything about it.”

Asked if the rule should be changed, Horschel said, “I’m not in the business of changing rules.’’

Like I said previously, “No one tells the wind what to do.”

 

 

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